#156: You're Wrong About That

In which Lauren & Mattias celebrate 3 years of Roasty Toasty Ghosty! They review their recent movie night films and discuss various topics such as sneezing and being limited.
Content:

• Opening
• Being old
• Weekly check in
• Movie on!
  •  Stakeout
  • Blood Father
• Intermission
• 3 years! 
  • Memories & Things Mattias can see
  • Lemons 
  • Old ladies and Sussie
  • Paper/razor cuts
  • Being thankful and life decisions 
  • Weight journey update
• History Lesson: the history of Roasty Toasty Ghosty 
• Joke
• Wrap up
  • What's ruining our lives 
  • [drunk] Christmas Karaoke Live Mad Libs! December  13 , 2025 8pm CET/2pm EST on Twitch @roastytoastyghostypodcast

Chapters

• 0:00 Cold Open And Anniversary Vibes
• 1:22 Hosts Introduce Themselves And The Show’s Weirdness
• 2:20 Third Anniversary And Running Jokes
• 2:55 Being The “Old Lady” At Work And Aging
• 7:05 Sleep Deprivation, Thanksgiving Plans, And Weekly Catch‑Up
• 9:31 Shoe Shopping, Sundays, And Job Interview Frustrations
• 12:20 References, Strengths And Weaknesses, And Work Uncertainty
• 15:25 Movie Morning Setup And Mystery Teasing
• 16:40 Movie One: Stakeout Recap And Rewatch Thoughts
• 19:20 Movie Two: Blood Father Recap And Reactions
• 22:34 Break Tease: Lemons And Jello Shots
• 24:58 Three Years: Favorite Moments And Studio Tour
• 27:35 Lemons, Sour Candy, And Intermission Jingles
• 30:00 Swedish “Susie,” Mrs. Claus Lore, And Name Silliness
• 33:20 Razor Cut Mishap, Dry Hands, And Thanksgiving Eve
• 36:05 Gratitude, Career Crossroads, And Not Settling
• 40:00 Body Image, Plateau Peace, And Maturity
• 41:55 A Three‑Year History Of The Podcast
• 47:15 Drunk Beginnings To Sober Rhythm And Patreon Notes
• 50:05 Drama, Friendship Contract, And The Rock Bit
• 52:30 Kid’s Alphabet Joke And Closing Bits
• 54:55 Live Mad Libs Announcement And Sign‑Off

Transcript

SPEAKER_04: 0:05

In a world where everything is unscripted, this is roasty, toasty, toasty.

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Okay.

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That's good.

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Let's open this up.

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Yes.

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This is an episode for a pink monster because usually when we celebrate things, we have pink drinks.

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Yeah, I don't. I have black and green.

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I will take one for the team.

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Yeah, I have the original.

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This is the part when I say I don't wanna. I don't I don't wanna. That's what I said. Hello. This is Roasty Toasty Ghostie. It's a weird title to a weird podcast hosted by a couple of weird people talking about weird things.

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Yeah.

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And my name is Lauren.

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My name is Matias.

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Yeah. It's a weird podcast. That's what I said. Yep.

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You're all welcome to it.

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Welcome to the weird podcast, in which you will learn nothing at all. Nothing at all. Nothing at all. I have to kind of combine the previous intro to the the current one.

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Yes.

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Just to keep things fun. We're gonna be your besties for the next hour or so.

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Yeah, we are. Is this the third year anniversary?

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This is the third year anniversary.

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Yeah.

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Happy three years.

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Yeah, happy three years.

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It has been a very fun, very uh uh interesting, dramatic, yeah, chaotic roller coaster adjectives. That was a noun.

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Yeah, but uh but yes, no, you're wrong.

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You're right.

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I didn't say yes, you're wrong.

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Yes, you're wrong.

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You're wrong over that. No uh well roller coasty.

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Roller coasty roasty toasty rolly coasty And that's a spinoff.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Okay. That should be the new leftovers, rolly coasties.

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Okay, are we gonna change that for every year? Before it was outtakes and then it got leftovers, and now it's rolly coasties. Yeah, that's okay.

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Yeah, we'll we'll see.

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Whatever sticks and gets attention.

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Yeah. I don't know. I know we we've done this before, and you have been talking about the older ladies at work.

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Oh yeah.

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And I was I was thinking this is the first year uh I'm an old lady. No, you're yeah, you're the old lady. No, this is the first year where you don't work where we used no where you used to work. Right. So this is a new job for you, and you are the old lady.

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Oh my gosh, I am the old lady. Okay. Um, so I guess I can talk about what it's like being the old lady at work.

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Yeah.

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Oh my gosh, that's not fun.

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Well, you think old ladies are fun.

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I guess so. But I'm not sure. It's hard to say how these children think of meme. Um, I like to think that they like meme. Um, I mean, I'm an old lady who is open and I say what's on my mind, and basically what you hear on the podcast here, that's how I talk at work too.

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Yeah. That's the old lady speaking.

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Yeah. And I I talk to the burgers. Oh, okay. And I was like, oh, are you done yet? Nope. Okay, you go he he'll be ready in like three minutes. Just give him a little bit longer. Oh, this one, he jumped ship.

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He didn't want to eat, and he just fell on the floor.

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Yeah.

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Whoops. Um, yeah, so I don't know. Maybe I'm just the weirdo old lady at work. Strange to think of that. Uh I I never saw myself as an old lady.

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No, but you're getting there.

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I guess so.

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We are we're all getting there.

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We're all getting there.

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Yeah.

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Eventually. Well, but I never thought it would happen. I didn't expect to be here this long.

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No. I'm not sure you really see yourself as an old lady when you become an old lady, or when does that happen? If you do.

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At what point in life do you see yourself as an old lady and then just kind of like embrace it and be like, this is a part of my identity now. I'm the old lady.

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Yeah, it's like, oh yeah, now I'm that person who I saw as a kid. You know, the old people. I'm I probably won't be an old lady. No. I will be an old man.

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Yeah.

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Um, probably.

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At some point.

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Yeah. Well, some people say I'm already an old man.

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So I mean, at what point do you think that you become old? Like, is there a number? Is a specific age in which you would say, Yeah, that that's pretty old.

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I don't know.

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That's um because it feels like as we get older, that number just keeps kind of rising a little bit.

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Yeah.

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Because as a kid, you would say, like, oh well, 30. And then once you uh get to, I don't know, 20s, oh maybe 40. 40 is kind of old. And then you have friends who turn 40 and they're not that old. Okay, well, maybe 50. Yeah. Then your life partner turns 40 and it's like, okay, well, at least not that old.

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No.

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Like, oh, 50, maybe 60.

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Yeah.

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And then I'm sure once you get to 50, you're like, well, this is not that old, really. It doesn't seem that old. Maybe 80.

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Yeah. Yeah, I don't know.

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Um what point are we at now?

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I think we're still young.

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Yeah, but what age is old?

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Yeah, we're not there yet.

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I would say probably 60.

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Yeah.

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If you're old enough to retire, maybe retirement age is that point in which the government decides that you're old.

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Yeah, but they keep uh raising erasing that too. So you never know.

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And I guess you can be president at a hundred years old too. So that's like nothing.

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That's a young one.

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Uh yeah. Oh, he's young.

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Yeah.

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Maybe 200. That's kind of old, I think. Matias.

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Yes.

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How are you doing?

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I'm doing well.

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Good.

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How are you?

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I'm good.

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Yeah. I'm a little bit tired, but yeah? Yeah.

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Oh my gosh. You poor thing. You've been through so much.

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Yes. Uh I slept four hours, mm, less than four hours, actually. But uh yeah, I'm I'm still good.

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And you have to be up all night?

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Yes, I have to work.

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And then go to sleep and then deal with drunk me tomorrow.

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Yeah.

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Uh right when you get here.

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Oh yeah, you're gonna be drunk the entire day.

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Maybe. Well, I I don't think I actually start drinking until the turkey's in the oven.

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Okay.

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I think it's either that or yeah, no, there's a point on my Thanksgiving schedule in which I drink wine. It's on the schedule to drink wine. Are you drunk now? No, I just think it's funny.

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Yeah.

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No, I'm not drunk. Okay. Um.

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Hi. Hello. Yes, you're hi.

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What? I'm good and let's talk about the week. I taught gymnastics on Saturday. Then I went to work. Oh. I mean, I got to go home for a little bit and then I went to work. And then you visited me at work.

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I did.

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Yeah. And the milkshake machine was broken. So you were sad.

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Yeah, that was a bummer.

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You know what's also a bummer? Not for you, but for me.

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You realized you're an old lady.

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I realized at that moment when I was told the milkshake machine was broken. That that's probably the point when I turn into an old lady. No, um, there was an advertisement for peppermint milkshakes, like candy cane milkshakes. And I wanted to try it with chocolate to make it like chocolate mint, and we didn't even have it. So maybe because the milkshake machine was broken, but even when it got fixed, we still didn't have candy canes, so kind of sad, but only for me, not you.

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Yeah, not for me. No. That's okay.

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We had dinner and then we went shopping.

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Yeah.

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And we found you a pair of shoes.

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Yes, we did.

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It wasn't easy.

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No.

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But we did it. Shoe shopping is never easy. Honestly, if you're looking for something specific, no matter what it is clothing-wise, it's the worst experience ever. Yeah. It's so hard.

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True.

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But we did find something. Have you worn them since?

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I have not.

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Okay. Then I brought you home, and that was that.

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Yeah. Yeah. That's it.

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That's it.

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That was uh because we got home late. Late. Yeah. Yeah.

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It was late. On Sunday, I I don't know. I I did my regular Sunday things.

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Yeah.

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Nothing exciting.

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No, I and I just stayed home.

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I think I also did regular Sunday things.

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I did. I think I did some editing.

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Regular Sunday things. Yeah. Yeah. That's it. Monday I worked again.

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Me too. E evening shift.

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Yeah. And I saw you on uh we we took the train together.

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Yes. We did.

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Yeah. And yeah. Worked. And then oh no. Tuesday, I did something that I can't remember.

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I worked.

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You worked. And I Oh, I had an interview on Tuesday. I interviewed for another job. Yeah. Because the job I'm at right now it feels like it's not gonna last much longer. So we'll see what happens. Um it it went alright. You know, something something that bothered me about the interview was that um, you know, in the first few questions I answered and it felt really good with my answers. And then the following questions just felt like repetitive. It was like, okay, but why do you think that you should work here? You know, I'm good at what I do. And this is something I like to do, and that's why you want me here. And then they're like, Okay, why do you think we want you here? Well, you know, I'm good at what I do, and I'm good at this and I like it.

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Yeah.

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Like, okay, if your brother asked, Why should you work here? What would you say to him? Well, you know, I like what I do and I'm really good at it, so that's why I'm here. Like, okay.

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Now your sister.

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Now your sister, what would she say? She would say, I'm really good at what I do, and I like to be here, and that's why I'm here. This is something I like to do.

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Now your cousin's best friend.

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If we asked the boss why should you work here, he would say, um, well, because I'm good at what I do and I like to do that thing, and I'm here and I like to be here, so that's why. Oh my, but like, it feels like they're looking for the same answer, yeah, just in different words. And so, like, the every time another question comes along, I had to like sit there and be like, is there something else I can say that is not repetitive that that I haven't already said? Yeah. And I just was like, I don't know. This I I already told you.

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Yeah.

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I I I'm good at what I do, and I like the things that I do, and I'm here, and that's why you want me here.

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Yeah.

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What else do you want from me?

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So yeah. Was that the same that I referenced you?

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Yes.

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Yeah, for yeah. Yeah. Because I got to be a reference.

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You did?

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Yeah.

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I I needed two references and I asked you to be a reference and you said no. And then I said please, and you said, Okay.

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Yeah. I didn't want to talk to people. I I don't like talking on the phone.

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Yeah. But I I asked them and they said that it was all digital. Yeah. Like a survey on me. I was like, okay, well that that makes things a hundred percent better.

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Yes. So I did that.

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Mm-hmm. Did you rate me five stars?

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Uh yes. Okay.

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I what were some of the questions? Because I didn't get to see it.

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What your skills are and things like that.

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Uh what are my skills?

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Yeah.

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What did you answer?

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You're good at like uh taking initiative.

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Oh, that's good.

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And uh things like that, and that you like what you do and I'm really good at it, and I'm here.

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And she wants to be there. That was the answer for every question. Alright, alright.

SPEAKER_04: 13:30

Yeah, I mean, it was like the standard questions for those.

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Did it ask like strengths and weaknesses? Yeah. Okay, what's my weaknesses?

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I I wrote that sometimes you can almost take too much work. You know, you you take on too many tasks at once.

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Is that a really a weakness? Yeah. Yeah, it is.

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Yeah, I I uh it can be stressful if you do that. Yeah. And I've seen you do that, and uh I feel like you were stressed while doing so. So yeah, that that's what I uh wrote as your weakness. Okay. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, I I mean it's still a compliment.

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Yeah, I take on a lot and I I get the things done.

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Yeah, that's also what uh what I said, that you get things done in time, in uh you know, when it's supposed to be within the time span that you have.

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By the deadline. Yeah. Yeah. That's good. I feel okay about that.

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Yeah.

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Alright, we need to keep going.

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But still, we we won't Limited.

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Yeah. Limited.

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Limited.

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Limited.

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Anyway, um Yeah, let's waste time with the doing stuff like that. Limited, limited.

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Limited, limited, limited. So yeah, Wednesday and Thursday were days in which I uh existed, and so did you.

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Yeah, I did.

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And today is Friday. Yeah, I did. How did you know that?

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I I didn't tell you.

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So yeah. Let's let's uh let's talk about today, which is Friday. Yes. And we watched movies.

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Yeah, movie morning.

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Would you like the movie on?

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Let's movie on.

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Alright, well, today we watched movie number one and then we watched movie number two. Yes. Would you like to talk about movie number two before I talk about movie number one?

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Well, I'm supposed to talk about m movie number one.

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Right. Would you like to talk about movie number one?

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Yeah, we do we want to see. No, it's a mystery. Okay. People we'll let the people guess. Okay, you haven't seen the movies? No. What the heck? I knew it.

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Okay, so um, movie number one. Go.

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Okay, so I'm gonna say the title.

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But that's that ruins the mystery.

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Okay. This is a movie with Emilio Estevez. Okay. And uh Richard Dreyfus is really the main character in this movie. Madeline Stowe and uh Aidan Quinn. Those are some of the actors in this one. Oh yeah, Forrest Whittaker is in this too. In a supporting role. It was before he became famous.

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Oh, okay.

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If it's like it. Anyway, uh so this movie is about cops. They're on a stakeout. A stake out.

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They're eating steak.

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No, no, they're on a stakeout. They're watching this lady in a house across the street from her house. They're looking into her house. Yes.

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Yeah.

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From the other side.

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The other house. Yeah. Okay.

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While they're in the house? There's two houses. There are two houses, one with cops in it.

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Okay.

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Who looks at a lady in the other house.

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Okay, from the inside.

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That too.

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They're inside the house?

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Yeah, they're inside the house at the beginning.

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Okay.

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Then one of them goes over to the other house and inside the house. Yeah, inside her house.

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Inside her house.

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Yeah, both her and the house. Eventually. Spoiler alert. There's an escape prisoner.

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Which is not her.

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No, but her ex-boyfriend is the ex-escape prisoner, and they are escape. Escape Yeah. Prisoner. So yeah, and uh then um one of the cops kind of feels a little bit too comfortable uh being around the lady, so they uh um become a thing. Yeah, they become a thing. And she doesn't know that he's a cop. So he has like a cover. And that's uh the plot of the movie.

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Yeah.

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Am I missing something?

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Um there were bad guys.

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Yeah.

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They beat up the bad guys.

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Yeah, that's true.

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Yeah.

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That uh escaped prisoner. Prisoner. Yeah, because it's a bad guy. He's the bad guy.

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Yeah, he got beat up.

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Yeah.

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Alright.

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Okay. What did you think about this movie?

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I liked the movie.

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Yeah.

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I thought it was fun. I liked the the drama and the action and the sneakiness and everything.

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What about the comedy?

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The comedy was good. I liked that part too.

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Yeah.

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I just forgot to say it. Yeah. There were funny parts and I enjoyed them. I liked what I saw.

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Yeah. It was a while since I last saw this movie. And after the hashtag me too. Oh yeah.

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Okay, the movement.

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Yeah, that was like eight years ago or so.

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Was it that long ago? Yeah. Oh my god. Okay.

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I think so. Cool. It's like this movie, it hasn't aged very well.

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I guess not.

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When you think about it. But uh I still think it's fun. But you have to have that in mind that uh it's not like PC.

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It's a man movie.

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It is, definitely. Absolutely.

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Made by men for men.

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Yeah. With one woman.

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Just the one. Yeah. Which is usually how these movies go.

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Yeah.

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One woman for them all.

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Yeah.

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Except only one of them gets her. Yeah. Anyway, what did you think about the movie?

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Uh like I said, I I do really like this one. It's funny. It has some action. Yeah, I like action comedies. And it's written by one of the guys who wrote uh Rush Hour.

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Alright.

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So that's cool.

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What was it called?

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Steak Out.

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Oh yeah. Oh yeah. I laughed because um I was thinking that we should grill steak outside and call it a steak out. Oh yeah. Steakout party.

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We should have um binoculars too. Just scus.

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Yeah. To look at the steak.

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It's a small one.

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It's really small. We all have to share it. Yeah. And a pinana, of course, because why not? Okay, well, I'm gonna tell you about movie number two. Yes. That we watched. This is a movie with Mel Gibson.

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Yeah.

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Again, first name I think of is Mel Brooks, but it's still Millie Mel Mel Gibson. Mel Gibson.

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Mel Gibson.

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Mill Millie Vanilli Gibson.

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Yeah.

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Okay, so Mel Gibson, he is improving. Okay? Because we've had movies with him in prison. Now he's out of prison.

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Yeah.

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Okay. And um he has a daughter. She's troubled. And she looks for him to get help. And uh he helps her because uh she's in trouble. She's done bad things. And uh and she's messed with some bad people, and now the bad people want to come get her. And Mel Gibson, he's on parole, but he helps her.

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Yeah.

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And there's bad guys.

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Yeah. What does he do with them?

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He mostly beats up the bad guys.

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Yeah.

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And then he stops.

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Yeah, suddenly.

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Suddenly he stopped. He changed his mind. Like, nah, I'm done. And that's the movie.

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Yeah.

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Uh what did you think of the movie?

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It's a pretty good movie. It's a little bit violent, but and I noticed that they swore a lot.

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Yes.

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Like every line it felt like almost. Or ever at least every other line it was F-word or I didn't really notice.

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Okay. I I guess it didn't bother me as much.

SPEAKER_04: 21:45

No, I'm starting to notice that since meeting you, because you don't want your kids to and uh before I never even noticed if they ever swore or whatever. But uh now uh it's kind of funny. Yeah.

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Luckily the kids weren't here today. They're all at school.

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If you don't wanna hear uh bad words, don't watch this movie.

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Alright.

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What did you think about this movie?

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I like this movie too.

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Good.

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It had kind of like a breaking bad kind of vibe to it, and I really like that show. Okay. The girl was really pretty. I liked her. Not just because she was pretty, but she was she was also really pretty. Yeah um that's the reason why I liked her.

SPEAKER_04: 22:33

Yeah, but but not not only, but she was.

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It was a I I'm not saying she wasn't because she really was.

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Yeah.

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It's not the only reason why I like her, but she had other qualities too. I'm sure she did, but she was really pretty. Um and I liked her. Yeah.

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So uh and that's why I like the movie. Hashtag me too.

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Yeah.

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Uh this is also a very man-heavy movie.

SPEAKER_01: 23:03

Yeah, but a lot of the action movies are there's not that many woman-led action movies that we watch. I'm not gonna say they don't exist, because they do exist. We just don't watch them. Why?

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Why?

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Why?

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Because there aren't no, there aren't very many, but we have some on the lists further down the line.

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What was the movie called?

SPEAKER_04: 23:29

Bloodfather.

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Okay. Bloodfather. It's like the Godfather, except he's bloody. Yeah. The bloody father. Alright, well, uh, that was that movie. I I think we covered everything.

SPEAKER_04: 23:41

I was uh a little bit worried that you wouldn't like this one because I feel it has like a Mad Max vibe to it too, since they're like in the desert.

SPEAKER_01: 23:52

Okay, but the script was better.

SPEAKER_04: 23:54

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01: 23:54

The script was like a huge part of why I didn't like Mad Max. Um, also the girl was pretty, so why wouldn't I like the movie?

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That never ha happened in Mad Max.

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There wasn't a pretty girl in Mad Max, not at her level now.

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You're gonna look her up now, this girl?

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Maybe. I'm gonna have to add her to my list.

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Yeah.

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On the movies.

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Yeah. Oh yeah.

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The movie list. What are you thinking?

SPEAKER_04: 24:20

You're gonna invite her to Thanksgiving?

SPEAKER_01: 24:23

Yeah. I'm gonna send her a letter. Like, hey, do you wanna join me for Thanksgiving? No reason, just cuz. Alright. Anything else?

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No.

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Let's take a break.

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Okay, yes.

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And then we're gonna talk about lemons and jello shots.

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Yeah.

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And also lemon jello shots.

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Okay.

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We'll be right back. Yes. Goodbye.

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Bye-bye.

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Bye.

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Rosy Toasty Ghosty. Roast the toasty goasty.

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Welcome back.

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Yeah, we're back.

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We're back. Alright, Matias. Three years.

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Three years.

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Okay. Off the top of your head, what is your favorite memory from the past three years based off of the podcast?

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Of all?

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All the years.

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Of all the years.

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What's the best moment ever? Or the first thing that comes to your head?

SPEAKER_04: 25:23

Me naming things I can see.

SPEAKER_01: 25:26

Okay. Yeah. That happened in the first episode.

SPEAKER_04: 25:28

Yeah, it that was uh so weird. Uh you you left the room and I I for some reason. Yeah. And I just uh You talked. Yeah, I talked.

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I you mentioned the things that you could see. Yeah. It was a lot of Santas.

SPEAKER_04: 25:42

Oh yeah.

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And we were recording in my daughter's room at the time. And she had decorated with Santas.

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Yeah. We can say that um it's not so many Santas right here, right now.

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No.

SPEAKER_04: 25:56

What if I uh would describe what I see, I see mostly ghosties actually.

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Which is very nice.

SPEAKER_04: 26:03

Yeah.

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There's lots of ghosties in here.

SPEAKER_04: 26:05

Yeah, ghosty glasses and a ghosty bowl, a candy bowl. And uh then there is also a skull.

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Oh yeah, there's a cauldron.

SPEAKER_04: 26:16

Cauldron. I uh see posters of AFI, corn, green day.

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Yeah.

SPEAKER_04: 26:25

And uh Weird Al. And under the Weird Al thing uh poster, I see a picture with us and Weird Al.

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Yeah. Remember the time when we met Weird Al?

SPEAKER_04: 26:36

That was a big deal.

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It was a big deal that went over really quickly.

SPEAKER_04: 26:42

Yeah.

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And then caused lots of problems.

SPEAKER_04: 26:45

Yeah. Uh it's it's so sad that we we're so shy. Yeah. That's too bad.

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Yeah.

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But I see also see pictures of uh you and uh your kids.

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When they were babies.

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Baby kids.

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There's only two of the kids there though.

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Yeah.

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I never printed out a picture of my third child.

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No.

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No. Whatever.

SPEAKER_04: 27:08

No. I also see a guitar and uh ukulele. Ukulele. Ukulele.

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Mm?

SPEAKER_04: 27:14

Yeah. And monsters.

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Right. Yeah.

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And I see you.

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Aw. That's the best part. Yeah. I think.

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Save the best for last.

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Aww. Dubit. Dub it. Let's talk about lemons.

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Okay, lemons.

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Okay, what are your opinions on lemons?

SPEAKER_04: 27:33

I think they're kind of sour.

SPEAKER_01: 27:35

Yeah. Cool. Yeah. Alright.

SPEAKER_04: 27:39

What what how would you describe them?

SPEAKER_01: 27:42

Um I like lemons.

SPEAKER_04: 27:44

You do?

SPEAKER_01: 27:45

I do.

SPEAKER_04: 27:45

You like just eat them eating them?

SPEAKER_01: 27:48

I do.

SPEAKER_04: 27:48

Okay.

SPEAKER_01: 27:49

Oh, there was that one time you and me and my life partner, we went to IKEA, right?

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Yeah.

SPEAKER_01: 27:56

And we ate at the restaurant there. Both of you got a fish meal and I didn't. But you both had lemons and gave them to me. Yes. And so I ate the lemons, and then I had a really hard time eating the rest of my food because all I could taste was lemons after that. I had like what, four slices of lemons.

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Maybe.

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Oh, it was not the best.

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Maybe you should have saved them for lasts.

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I should have, but still. I still would have just tasted lemons for the rest of the day.

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Yeah, that's true.

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And it leaves like a weird feeling in the mouth.

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Yeah.

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Like a dry weirdness.

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Yeah. Do you like uh sour candies?

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I do.

SPEAKER_04: 28:41

You do. I do.

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I like sour gummy worms.

SPEAKER_04: 28:44

Yeah. Because we have a friend who li who doesn't like uh sour candies. She thinks it's too sour and she can't eat them.

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She can't stand it.

SPEAKER_04: 28:54

No. And uh but she has no problem with uh uh lemons.

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Mm, okay.

SPEAKER_04: 29:01

That's I I just gotta be a difference though. I kind of find that weird. Because lemons are worse than the candies, in my opinion.

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Yeah, no, you're right. I don't know.

SPEAKER_04: 29:12

I like both. Yeah, okay. I do like mmm candies though.

SPEAKER_01: 29:17

The sour candies. Yeah. But not lemons. You're the opposite. Yeah. And I'm just both. Yeah. I'll eat it all.

SPEAKER_04: 29:23

Yeah, you go both ways.

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I do. Calm down there. Okay. Let's see. Uh jingles.

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Intermission.

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Intermission? Yeah. Oh, we already took a break.

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Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_01: 29:33

Should we should we play your jingle?

SPEAKER_04: 29:37

Yeah, we should.

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That'll be the intermission then.

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If you yeah, if you want to.

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I'll put it over the intermission music.

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Yeah.

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Is that okay?

SPEAKER_04: 29:47

Yeah, sure.

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I mean, you've sung for the intermission before.

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Yeah, I I did.

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Okay. Well, we have a jingle.

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Yeah.

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We talked about Swedish woman. Yes. Well, kind of old woman.

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Yeah.

SPEAKER_01: 29:58

And technically I'm a Swedish woman now. Yeah. I'm Susan. Susan.

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Susan.

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I'm Susan.

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Oh yeah, you're Susan now.

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The Swedish lady.

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Susan.

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Yeah. Susie.

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Susie.

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Yeah, you could call me Susie if you wanted to.

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Yeah.

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But that's only when I'm an old Swedish lady.

SPEAKER_04: 30:17

Yeah, that's true. So when we start calling you Susie, that that's when we know you're old.

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I might be a little hurt because that means I'm old.

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Yeah.

SPEAKER_00: 30:29

I am not that old. I'm not 60 yet.

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It also I'm I'm sorry if I'm offending a anyone but uh it also kind of sounds like a little pudgy name for a pudgy person.

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Well okay so do you think that people named Susie are doomed for life when they get old. It feels they're gonna end up being fat old ladies.

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It feels like they are like oh I got that name okay I can eat candy now. I guess so give me that candy.

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I don't think they're doomed for life though.

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No not if they're stranded on an island with food.

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No, because then then they get smaller.

SPEAKER_04: 31:12

Yeah maybe that's how you resolve the susis of Sweden this is awful terrible person you are I know but also it sounds like an insult now.

SPEAKER_01: 31:31

Yeah you're a susie you've got Karen's and then you've got sus the susis is that they're always happy.

SPEAKER_04: 31:41

They're so nice they're always nice and happy and you know really jolly that's they're like Santa That's not all of them I've met some grumpy susies. Okay. But maybe just because they're working I don't know maybe because uh the i it I can i Mrs Claus is her name Susie?

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Sh could very well be okay we're gonna break down we're gonna get to the bottom of this what is Mrs Claus's actual name I think it's Susie. We're gonna name her Susie is she Swedish she's uh North Polish North Polish which is a direct descendant of Sweden. Yeah so she must be from the northern area of yeah she just went straight up to the Eskimo land up there with the polar bears. Yeah and found Santa rode a polar bear all the way to the North Pole and met Santa. Yeah and he was like you're the only woman around here my age who is also human so I guess we'll get married.

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And she was like I like candy.

SPEAKER_01: 32:47

Yeah he's like well I got some candy for you here taste my cane candy cane lollipops all right okay um I don't know what I'm keeping even this was a mess okay um paper cuts okay you have uh eras the bar I have you went from paper cuts to razor cuts oh razor cuts yes okay so I have this big slice on my finger because a couple days ago I was cutting sick child's hair and we have like this shaving machine the same one that I use on you and I don't know what's wrong with this machine but I think the razor part kind of gets dislodged or something so when you try to use it it pulls on the hair. So I have to like uh take it apart and put it back together again and it's really difficult putting it back together again. I don't know what happened but the edge of the razor sliced right through my finger and it hurts and I bled a lot and it's like literally right across the entire finger. Yeah. And it's not a shallow cut either it's it's no it looks it's in there. And uh I don't care for him.

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No.

SPEAKER_01: 34:09

So that's my paper cut razor cut story. Uh what about you?

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I I just have dry hands.

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Unattractive hands.

SPEAKER_04: 34:18

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_01: 34:18

It looks like they've gotten a little bit better.

SPEAKER_04: 34:21

Yeah or is it just your thumbs my thumb that I thought that I had ugly well this one is also kind of ugly that's an ugly finger you have there. It's not even the longest one.

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No.

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But did you notice when you said that I was I said I don't know why I do that that's how I say yeah now.

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I'm I'm becoming I'm becoming a Suseam. Yeah I'm becoming an old lady a Swedish old lady every time I say yeah yeah or okay okay yeah I'm fighting for air here yeah okay so uh Thanksgiving is next week but we're celebrating tomorrow. Yes very fun and that's all I had to say about that. We're gonna have a lot of people it's gonna be fun.

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I bet we're gonna talk about it next week.

SPEAKER_01: 35:22

Yeah and we're gonna drink. Do you want to be thankful today or next week?

SPEAKER_04: 35:26

Maybe we sh uh well I can be thankful today. I I'm thankful for uh having the movie day movie morning today it was nice yeah I and you know what I'm really thankful if you if we look at at this um past year okay that you sacrificed your your spot uh at the the at work for me that was really nice of you yeah even though I I I didn't get the um what I wanted but uh I still get still get to work there yeah but I was it was a step closer yeah at least yeah that's true that's what I'm thankful for really thankful.

SPEAKER_01: 36:12

You're welcome thank you you what about you are you thankful well I mean the results of that has been well it hasn't been easy I can tell you that much I mean there's been a lot of difficulty it's not just financially but it's more like it's the beginning of a long and difficult road yeah uh trying to get my studies done and trying to build the confidence to do the things that I want to do and remember why I'm doing this. And yeah it's it's been dramatic.

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But what but you also know that you can come back is that it would be absolutely no problem for you to come back to work.

SPEAKER_01: 37:04

Yeah there's that but there's also like I uh know that I don't want to spend the rest of my life there.

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No.

SPEAKER_01: 37:14

Which is what I was really afraid of for a long time while working there. Yeah and now that I'm not there anymore I I don't want to settle.

SPEAKER_04: 37:24

No the thing is if uh it would be really difficult for you to get a permanent thing there.

SPEAKER_01: 37:32

I mean if I could get a part-time position so I can still study that would be amazing. No problem. I'll do it I'll apply I'll be the first to apply for a extra job or whatever there. But since they're not offering that I can't.

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No.

SPEAKER_01: 37:49

So that would be great. No problems. I'd be happy and I wouldn't have the fear of my life is going down the toilet. True not saying anything. You made your decision. I've made mine and we're both okay with that. Yeah I think yeah okay what am I thankful for was the question.

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Yes.

SPEAKER_01: 38:11

I guess going off of that I'm thankful that I had the opportunity to leave. Oh you're welcome thank you I mean I try to make you feel bad about it but really it's it's it's just good for me. Yeah yeah I'm thankful for staying afloat whether it's just hanging off the edge of Kate Winslit's door. Yeah you know she's gonna make me let go at some point and then I'm gonna drown.

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Because you know she's not sharing that with you.

SPEAKER_00: 38:42

I'm not sharing that boat no and uh yeah she's like you have zero chance of survival here.

SPEAKER_01: 38:52

Yeah like okay well I'm gonna hold on as long as I can at least sure it would fit both of us but no this is my this is my door yeah oh my god I can see you doing that like no get your own door this is my door I clean this door you can't have it yeah I'm thankful yeah there's a lot of things I'm thankful for but I think that's what I'm gonna mention here. The freedom kind of yeah and the food I guess yeah I'm thankful for the food food is always good yeah another thing I'd like to compare last year we were on this weight journey right yeah I mean it was it was a good part of last year a few months at least which we were losing a lot of weight yeah and then something happened over Christmas and we kind of uh stopped yeah and it's it's been kind of up and down since then too yeah uh the guilt and then the apathy basically but I realized a couple days ago that yeah sure I'm not where I wanted to be but I don't feel terrible about my body.

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Okay.

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I don't hate myself and I mean I try to eat well but I don't really I try not to guilt myself so much for eating bread.

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Okay.

SPEAKER_01: 40:25

Whatever. I had one slice of pizza. Alright that's okay. So I'm thankful for my mindset at the moment regarding my weight and my body.

SPEAKER_05: 40:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01: 40:36

I'm content. Good and I'm plateauing anyway so it's the perfect time to be content because I'm not going anywhere. I've tried it's not going I'm not budging.

SPEAKER_04: 40:46

That feels very mature of you.

SPEAKER_01: 40:49

Thank you. You know what? If you change my name I'm gonna be so mad do we need a history lesson?

SPEAKER_04: 40:58

I don't know. I I haven't thought about anything.

SPEAKER_01: 41:02

Okay. Should we I'm gonna give you a history lesson on the past three years. Okay yeah this is sounds good the the past three years of Roasty Toasty Ghosty the podcast. So once upon a time three years ago it was more than three years ago I have to start from the beginning okay I I had a baby okay his name was Sick Child yeah and so I took some time off of work and then I came back to work and I was a sad person. I didn't like myself and I didn't like anything. And then Matias was uh sitting in front of me that was you yeah that that was your role not the rock um well uh people often confuse us we have the same haircut oh yeah I guess so it's a slight difference but agree to disagree all right Matias warned the rock very mature of you yeah okay so um Matias sat there at lunch and he made a funny joke and I laughed and then I was like why in a why am I not friends with this guy? So I annoyed you to the point where you gave me your phone number and and or no we were on Messenger first. Yeah and so I started annoying you on messenger instead of just at work because why what's so fun about just being annoyed at work when you could be annoyed 247. Okay so then I I annoyed you to the point where I had you give in to watching movies with me. Because I noticed that you like movies. So I said let's watch movies. I've never seen Terminator you're like that's a problem we're fixing that so we watched Terminator one and two and thus movie night was born and then we became close friends and we laughed together a lot and we had funny conversations so I said one winter night let's start a podcast you're like yeah okay okay whatever I was like all right well we'll see what happens there yeah because uh the idea was kind of floating up in the air for a while a few weeks and then one day after we watched movies I was like let's record something you're like yeah sure and then you stared at your phone and I was like okay let's go home let's bring you home instead and so that that was that but then the next week uh I said let's record something and you're like okay so we did and we had uh some alcohol yeah to get us warmed up yeah and uh brave enough to speak into a laptop we didn't even have a microphone at the time we did not and uh we we talked into this laptop and uh we just said whatever was it this one it was this one yeah I've had this one since like twenty twenty and it's the only one that we have recorded with. Cool. Okay so that was that and we had a few drunk episodes in the beginning and then we realized we don't really need to drink for this.

SPEAKER_04: 44:15

No.

SPEAKER_00: 44:16

I mean uh we uh we ran out of alcohol was the problem yeah and then we were like we have to do this sober yeah and we realized we can talk without the alcohol some people would even say better.

SPEAKER_01: 44:31

Maybe maybe well maybe not sure I don't remember that was me saying something sober um yeah so that happened we started uh sober episodes and it's gone well and we've had some history lessons which was supposed to drive the whole thing and I'm gonna sneeze but um I got over it so then um I just kept talking was that part of the history remember the history of when I got sneeze but got over it okay here's a mini history lesson there was a time when I was gonna sneeze and then I got over it the end back to whatever I was actually saying um what was I saying? I sneezed I didn't sneeze though we didn't sneeze we didn't sneeze we didn't sneeze I didn't sneeze either so that's correct okay you were talking about we uh doing this sober right we did this sober and we came up with some ideas and we started a Patreon and then we shut down the Patreon. Actually I don't think I ever shut it down. I think it's still there.

SPEAKER_05: 45:48

Okay.

SPEAKER_01: 45:49

Don't don't go onto Patreon and look for us because I'm not paying attention to anything there. But you can subscribe to us on Buzz Sprouts. Yeah. It's only like three dollars a month to listen to us I don't know blabber on about something that wasn't worthy enough to be on the episode. Also we have a movie night list that you can take a sneak peek at so you can see uh what we're gonna watch in the future and if you have any suggestions you can uh suggest movies and stuff. Yeah that also happened uh at the beginning of movie night we uh built a list of lots of movies and that's what we are going off of right now.

SPEAKER_04: 46:35

Yeah it's still growing but not uh at the same pace at as it did in the beginning.

SPEAKER_01: 46:42

Right. Okay so year one ended and lots of things happened and things got pretty good and then things got worse and there's a few episodes there in which we are kind of grumpy with each other.

SPEAKER_04: 46:58

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01: 46:59

Uh things got dramatic behind the scenes behind the scenes we've always been friends. Yeah we've all always said that we were gonna stay friends yeah but we got through a patch yeah we always gonna have movie nights uh even if we hate each other that was the promise yeah we yeah we um we signed a contract um yeah a verbal contract yeah we signed it verbally yeah uh we said that we will always have movie nights even if we hate each other signed Lauren and signed Montillas yeah now we have it on recording so it's even more documented. Yes okay so we got through that and now we're entering our second year and things are pretty good and uh we even had episodes in which I wasn't with you I was somewhere completely different and you took over for a couple episodes which was amazing and I'm thankful for you and the things that you've put up with me.

SPEAKER_04: 48:09

Well uh you have uh taken care of this stuff uh most like all the other episodes I I I took care of two. Yeah yeah the rest was yours so I guess so so it's really I didn't do much. Okay.

SPEAKER_01: 48:28

But yeah well I guess you can be thankful for me too.

SPEAKER_04: 48:32

Yes I am but I did spend a lot of time on those episodes.

SPEAKER_01: 48:38

Yep yeah I can imagine it was a lot of work yeah and I was busy with other things. Yeah. So that happened and the podcast has evolved quite a bit and um I mean if you compare the first year to the second year and now the third year everything's like things change a lot. Yeah and we've gotten closer and it's just gonna continue that way. Yeah. Yeah I think so we've dealt with a lot of garbage from each other. Yeah. Yeah garbage which is a nice word for what I wanted to say.

SPEAKER_04: 49:15

Yeah but um trash trash yeah what you wanted to say but you didn't it was it's too strong.

SPEAKER_01: 49:24

It was a strong word so I used garbage.

SPEAKER_04: 49:26

Yeah and the rock was with us all the way yeah he the whole time yeah in spirits always been a constant to this show.

SPEAKER_01: 49:38

He kind of holds everything down. Yeah because he's a rock yeah and that's what rocks do they are paperweight if we were paper he'd be on top of us yeah I mean if he wasn't here we would just fly away. Yep that would be a problem. Yeah okay well that was that was that um do you have any questions? No I don't think so okay tell me a joke an English joke an English joke I I don't know jokes oh yeah your daughter said a joke today Oh yeah I feel like I've said it on the podcast before though um but I I think it's worth retelling because of the at intense amount of laughter that came from me after even though I had already heard the joke. Yeah I told the joke and then she um like without her around I told it on the podcast and then this morning she tells me this joke and I just I thought it was so funny. I laughed so much. I think she did it wrong though because she had the numbers wrong. Yeah I think she said what was it even? I know only 25 letters of the alphabet I don't know why I think she said 24 though.

SPEAKER_04: 50:54

Okay.

SPEAKER_01: 50:54

Because I think there's 26 letters of the English alphabet. She said 24 but how is she supposed to know there's 26? Yeah um it doesn't so she doesn't know why and then there's another letter that she doesn't know but she couldn't tell me because she doesn't know it. Oh anyway ruined a funny joke um but it was funny and that was the joke anything else uh happy three years happy three years did we have anything more on that list? What list? No that was the it that was the it that was the it that was the it the end also so are you all out of sibs? Yes you are you are out of sibs and that means we're all out of episode yeah so as we reach the end of the episode please tell me what is ruining your life this is something that has lasted all year that's cool cool we always have something to complain about complain about something I need to go to the bathroom okay we'll finish this up so that you can go pee then all right um what's wrong with your life quickly quickly the fact that you're rushing me which is really all I can complain about right now um also I smell really bad because of that I can because I'm rushing you I'm sweating so bad because I'm I'm rushed I'm stressed yeah all right please please please join us for the next live Mad Libs because we're wrapping this up would you like to wrap this up? Yeah cool uh because I really want to talk about mad libs which is on December 13th 2025 oh my god it's the last mad libs of the year yeah what happened uh oh yeah I forgot to bring that up for the history lesson because live mad libs is a thing that we do in which we play mad libs with the our audience. Yeah and um we have another event December 13th we're gonna be drunk we're gonna be doing karaoke it's gonna be Christmas and that's why it's called the drunk Christmas karaoke live mad libs yeah cool um so be there it's on Twitch it'll be fun and we're gonna sing and it's gonna be embarrassing. Oh yeah a disaster but we're all gonna have fun. Yeah we'll be back next Tuesday with another great episode whatever happens on that one I'm sure it'll be fun.

SPEAKER_04: 53:32

Yeah we'll find out we'll find out what we do.

SPEAKER_01: 53:34

Yeah anything else no all right thanks for joining us or listening and stuff and have a good life.

SPEAKER_04: 53:42

You do that all right have a good Thanksgiving oh it's in two days uh from oh yeah happy Thanksgiving yes and how did I end the first episode do you remember? I said something really cheesy uh stay roasty toasty gauties because it's cold outside it's freaking snowing outside oh yeah it started this week it's snow outside we have a winter Thanksgiving yeah in Sweden so well we people don't celebrate Thanksgiving here no well we do we do anyway and we're people we are people so people are stay inside it's cold out and have a good life goodbye bye bye thank you for listening to the Roasty Toasty Ghostie Podcast if you kinda liked our episode follow us on the social medias we are on Instagram TikTok and YouTube at RoastyTyGhosty Pod.

SPEAKER_01: 54:40

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SPEAKER_04: 54:45

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SPEAKER_01: 55:02

Goodbye Matthias Goodbye Lauren